We complain. We judge. We evaluate. It’s a normal function of being human even if it is unproductive. We complain that things shouldn’t be a certain way, a person shouldn’t be the way they are, life should be different. Even though our complaints seem justified, even legitimate, there is a certain payoff we get that reinforces the behavior. But, every payoff comes with a cost. And, in the case of complaints it’s personal affinity, aliveness, fulfillment and expression free from concern.
By turning off the mechanics of complaining constantly and interrupting the cycle of payoffs, we discover new ways of relating that leads to greater degrees of satisfaction, fulfillment and happiness.
The possibility of seeing things in a new and untainted light empower, enliven and transform.
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